Saturday, August 23, 2025

World Frankenstein Day: An invitation to Gather through Blogging

Remember our old blog days, when we gave each other homework and set strange little challenges just to see what we’d do with them? When comment threads felt like hidden corridors where the real conversations lived? The Very Curious Dr. Z, I know you remember. In that spirit, I’m summoning the circle again.

The world has gone dark, and not in the delicious gothic way. I want connection, something real, something secret and shared even across the distance. So, here’s the triple dog dare: join me in celebrating World Frankenstein Day, on Saturday, August 30th, Mary Shelley’s birthday.

She gave us a tale of creation and rejection, a nameless creature both intelligent and unloved, wandering alone through storm and silence. He has always felt like a companion to me, misunderstood, but still alive with longing. Which is why my own celebration will be solitary.

"The monster was the best friend I ever had." - Boris Karloff

This year, my celebration will look a lot like my usual gothy routines, only charged with the spark of the occasion. I’ll be reading the Kolaj version of Frankenstein; or, the Modern Prometheus that features seventy-six illustrations by International Collage Artists. I'll write poetry under flickering black candles (or most likely the sun), verses stitched from loneliness and lightning. I’ll probably wander into a cemetery. And, I’ll mix myself a cocktail to toast Mary Shelley and her nameless creation.

Frankenstein Cocktail

1 ounce Dry Vermouth for smooth, herbaceous gloom

1 ounce Gin for sharp botanical clarity

1/2 ounce Apricot Brandy for sweetness in the shadows

1/2 ounce Triple Sec for citrus lightning

Garnish with a cherry, red as a borrowed heart

Shaken, strained, and consumed like a pact.

I’m challenging you to take part in your own way. Read a passage from Frankenstein. Watch an old black-and-white horror film. Write something, stitch something, light a candle, pour a drink, summon the storm. Report back. Tell me how you kept the day.

Let’s make it feel like it used to: a secret society scattered across the map, bound together by shared ritual and words. On August 30th, I’ll be celebrating alone, just like the creature. But maybe, just maybe, we won’t be so alone if we do it together.

When you share your ritual, your poem, your candlelit toast, begin or end with these words, as though we are all whispering them into the same night:

“We are the children of Shelley, keepers of the storm. [Okay, I'm feeling a bit dramatic.] We gather though apart, stitched together by ink and shadow. On this night of Frankenstein, we honor the nameless and the misunderstood. Alone, yet not alone, we light the dark with words, with memory, with creation.”

Write it, speak it, or leave it hidden like a charm at the end of your message. Consider it our oath, our flicker of connection in the storm.

Wednesday, August 20, 2025

Church Hill Tunnel Commemoration Tour

 


Thursday, October 2 and Friday, October 3

October 2nd, 1925 in Richmond started like most other days, but it would go down leaving a permanent scar on the community’s mind and landscape.
We will mark 100 years since the collapse of the Church Hill Train Tunnel with a series of “give-what-you-wish” mini-tours. Tours will start at Richbrau Brewing Company and proceed to the west end of the tunnel, sharing the history of the tunnel and the urban legend of the Richmond Vampire that came in the decades that followed.
Tours will be 45-50 minutes, round-trip from Richbrau Brewing. The first tour will be at 6:30PM, with tours leaving every 20-30 minutes until 8:00PM, on both October 2nd and October 3rd. Tour availability is first come, first served. Space will be limited and we are not accepting reservations. Check in with the Haunts of Richmond table upon arrival to register.
Select merchandise will be available for sale, including books about the train tunnel collapse and the Richmond Vampire. Local author Sharon Pajka will be in attendance with her new book, Haunted Virginia Cemeteries, featuring Richmond’s Hollywood Cemetery and the Vampire legend.

Monday, August 11, 2025

A book signing, a cemetery tour under the full moon, and feeling grateful...

Moonrise over the James River, Hollywood Cemetery, Richmond, Virginia

There’s a popular perception about professors and summer. The story goes something like this: when classes end, we pack away our notes, grab a good book, and spend the next few months soaking up the sun, traveling, or enjoying leisurely mornings with endless cups of coffee.

While that might be true for some, my summer has looked very different. The weeks leading up to the fall semester have been some of my busiest and most rewarding. This summer I have spent my time working and as a volunteer where I connect with my community, and push creative projects forward, work that fuels both my writing and my teaching.

This past weekend was a perfect snapshot of my summer. On Saturday morning, I had a book signing at the Richmond Public Library. The turnout was incredible, and I was reminded once again that my best-selling venues happen to be two places steeped in history and meaning: the library and the cemetery. Both are spaces where stories are preserved, just in different ways.

After signing books, catching up with friends, and meeting new readers, I grabbed lunch with a friend before preparing for my evening Full Moon cemetery tour. This was no ordinary night. We gathered under the Sturgeon Moon in Aquarius, an air sign that speaks to communication, shared visions, and building bridges between past and future. I always try to start each Full Moon tour with a fresh perspective, and this time I even threw in a dad joke which, I must say, landed surprisingly well. It was a reel-y good joke!

We had around 65 attendees that night. Over the course of the three Full Moon tours I have led this summer, we have raised 2,875 dollars for the Friends of Hollywood Cemetery. That money goes directly toward preserving this historic site and ensuring that its stories and beauty remain for generations to come.

After the tour, a few new friends invited me out to a diner. I said yes. That is not my usual post-event routine since I am often home well before midnight, but this time I stayed out until 1 a.m. and it was worth every minute. The good conversations, laughter, and sense of connection cannot be scheduled into a calendar. Okay, it can, and I used to have a spontaneity sticker for my planner, but you know what I mean. 

On Sunday, I ventured into new territory with my first visit to the Oddities and Curiosities Expo. I had never attended before since taxidermy has never been my thing, as I like my goth a little less literal, but I am so glad I went. The creativity on display was inspiring, and I left with my hands full of art. 

Every tour I lead, every conversation I have, and every new experience I step into adds something to my toolkit as an educator. History comes alive when you have walked the ground where it happened. Storytelling deepens when you have stood under the moonlight sharing it with others. Creativity expands when you are open to unexpected inspiration.

For me, summer is not downtime. It is an investment in the work I will be doing all year long. When the semester begins, I will bring these experiences, stories, and renewed energy into my classroom. My students do not just get lectures, they get a richer and more connected view of the world because I have been out there engaging with it.

So yes, the sun is shining, and somewhere in a cemetery, there is a lounge chair with my name on it. For now, I am busy, and I would not have it any other way.


Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Painting ghosts in the cemetery



We started our day with an Almond Joy latte for Babushka and a Coco Loco for me from Rivers Edge Coffee. With warm cups in hand, we made our way to Overlook 3 at Hollywood Cemetery, with a perfect view, arguably the best, of the James River and the skyline of Richmond.

Lunch came courtesy of Sally Bell’s Kitchen. Babushka went with the Roast Beef & Swiss, while I opted for the Egg Salad Box Lunch, each complete with the perfect sides (potato salad, deviled eggs, and cheese wafers). We claimed a quiet spot near Palmer Chapel and let the day unfold.

Armed with paint-by-number kits featuring ghostly cemetery scenes (because of course we are going to paint ghosts in a cemetery), we settled in. The breeze was soft and the company was steady. Sometimes we talked, sometimes we let the cemetery do the talking.

There were mild grievances, such as Color #7 being questionable at best, and Colors #8 and #9 may have had identity crises, but even our complaints felt like part of the ritual. We spent the afternoon haunting the place, slowly bringing spectral forms to life with every careful brushstroke.

It was my book release day, and oddly, perfectly, it felt like my own kind of release too. A day painted with laughter, ghosts, and Babushkas just the way I needed.

Thursday, July 31, 2025

Episode 243 - Haunted History: Exploring Virginia's Cemeteries with Sharon Pajka

🔮 Prepare yourself for the séance… 🔮

Cemetery Travel Royalty Returns: Loren Rhoads Launches Kickstarter for New Book!

I’ve been a fangirl of Loren Rhoads for years, long before I could call her a friend. Her writing, her insight, and her fearless curiosity made me feel seen. She showed me that it’s okay, even beautiful, to explore cemeteries not just for research, but for recreation and reflection. 

Loren is truly the queen of cemetery travel. She runs CemeteryTravel.com, an incredible resource and community hub for taphophiles, historians, travelers, and the merely curious. And now, she’s back with a brand-new book! Still Wish You Were Here: More Adventures in Cemetery Travel 

This new memoir collects 35 essays from Loren’s journeys through more than 50 burial grounds worldwide from California’s Gold Country to the streets of Singapore, Tokyo, Rome, and beyond. Fifteen of these stories are brand new and exclusive to this book!

Whether she’s tracking down the graves of cultural icons, getting wonderfully lost in foreign churchyards, or meditating on mortality, Loren’s stories are vivid, thoughtful, and deeply inspiring.

Kickstarter is live! and runs until August 8, 2025
https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/lorenrhoads/still-wish-you-were-here-more-adventures-in-cemetery-travel

If cemeteries call to you the way they do to me, if you’ve ever wandered through one feeling connected, curious, or just at peace, this is the book to support.

Thank you, Loren, for making this strange and sacred form of travel feel like home.